Wednesday, February 6, 2008

IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME??

Has there ever been a time in your life when you've loved two people at the same time? I've seemed to be in that position before, or at least I felt I was. I have asked myself if maybe one feeling was a feeling of lust and the other love? Or maybe I was stuck between a rock and a hard spot. When in a situation like this what would you do? Do you lead a double life enjoying the relations with both, or do you feel as though you are violating the one you're with. However, as a young adolesence you are taught to follow your heart. Maybe following your heart isn't the best for you. Your body is saying "yes" and your mind is saying "no". On the other hand, the one you're with sexually isn't fulfilling all of your sexual desires, but is the one who loves you whole heartly. Hey ladies!! WHAT WOULD YOU DO?????????????

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Someone made a point that it is only possible to love one person and be lusting/infatuated with the other. While I've never been in such a situation, I think it's possible to love two people at the same time but having that love be equal is not realistic.

Pri said...

I'm a scientist by training and firmly believe in the laws of nature. Pauli's exclusion principal states that two IDENTICAL objects cannot occupy the same space at the same time. So you can have two people in your space, but one is not going to have your affection like the other one. Some people think otherwise, but I do not think it's possible in any way.

Unknown said...

Um, that is a tough one! I will say that it is not always wise to give in to your "desires" but I do know what it is like to really love someone but lust/love after someone else. In the end, someone's feelings wind up hurt and I can say that your hurt feelings maybe part of the equation.

Maybe before stepping out, you could ask the one your with to try to do to you sexually what you want done.

This is tricky...I do say follow your heart not your legs or what's between them. Cause though men are accused of thinking w/the lower region women are guilty of that too! LOL

Unknown said...

Pri, did you just mention some scientific prinicpal????? LOL Too funny!!! But okay, I feel ya. LOL

Pri said...

Yes I did. You know I'm a closet Nerd. LOL